Love Manifestation 101

Every person who has ever walked the spiritual path has at least wondered about the future of their romantic endeavours and if it was possible to alter destiny with their own hands.

Many tarot readers and witches begin their own journeys when they try manifesting love spells for the first time, strangely enough love manifestation is often the most complicated kind of spell or manifestation that exists in modern eclectic witchcraft.

The reason these spells are hard is not particularly because of the manifestation but rather because of human psychology, manifestation itself is a very simple concept- asking the universe for exactly what you want and believing it will come to you, however in the case of love, humans rarely know what they truly want, they’re rarely able to identify the obstacles that hinder them from their romantic goals and they rarely believe they are worthy of love.

This is why recent love spells often centre around self love, self love is often one of the pillars that need to be established before forming a healthy romantic relationship (it also means you’re not trying to influence another persons free will, but hey I’m not judging that aspect of it)

HOW TO DO A LOVE SPELL THAT ACTUALLY WORKS????

In manifestation something that needs to be established, I am a firm believer that you cannot manifest what is not meant to be yours. So that guy you’ve been waiting for, wishing he would just notice you, yeah sis you’re unlikely to pull that man into your life because he’s probably a reflection of your psychological trauma bonds and clearly not meant to be your soulmate. If you try doing a love spell it’ll probably work, don’t get me wrong, but all you’re going to get from it is a good hard lesson. You’re going to be miserable. You’re going to manifest a person into your life, but you’re not going to be manifesting love... in that case we‘re talking more about obsession spells, sex spells, seduction spells, think of me spells, etc etc, this is not love.

On the other hand if you’re manifesting love with no clear attachment to a person you’re likely to attract a soulmate, with a combination of self love and asking the universe to bring your soulmate to you, you are extremely likely to find one.

What about love manifestation to improve a current relationship?

this is a hard one, when a relationship goes sour whether the two of you are soulmates or not, a straightforward love spell is often not enough to put the relationship right. Spells always work in conjunction with your personal work. But you’ll also need a variety of other spells , a spell to banish blocks and negativity, a spell to open roads and clear communication, a spell to bring prosperity and joy into your life, etc, etc because all of these things contribute to a healthy relationship.

often when people say they’re looking for love, they mean a healthy relationship (or they mean they want their obsession with a trauma bond to turn into a healthy relationship), there is no shortage of love in the world, it can be found in ourselves, in the kind embrace of a friend, in a home cooked meal from a family member, in the dependency of a pet, in the beauty of the moon. Love is everywhere, a healthy romantic relationship on the other hand is not.

This post was supposed to highlight the differences and complexities in t love manifestation, hopefully it explains why your love spells may have not worked as you want them to. This is the first in a series of posts about Love manifestation, in the mean time, take care of yourselves, love and light to you

Kayleen